welcome to #BaiLu's advice column 💌 —🧵
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
q: i've got the job i've always wanted but it seems different to what i had anticipated. my coworkers aren't very friendly and i suddenly feel uncertain about my future. should i persevere?
bai lu: listen to your heart. i think people… pic.twitter.com/r8Tdcq9Wsp
#BaiLu: i'm an actor and i found my passion for acting and aspects of the job that i find interesting. i've always been able to find joy in creating characters. what the people around you are like isn't that important. what's most important is how you feel about the job#CDrama pic.twitter.com/br1EBweut7
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
#BaiLu: if your job isn't making you very happy, see if you can find the same role at a different company, or change where you work, or is there a different job that you might want to try? make your mental state and your mood the priority. it's most important to love yourself 💜 pic.twitter.com/kSroZGPVdu
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
#BaiLu: “happiness is most important. what comes next, always comes next” 🫶 pic.twitter.com/W4wDCxrju8
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
q: how do i deal with good friends who show PDA every day?#BaiLu: there are 2 methods.
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
1️⃣ find your own partner
2️⃣ block them 😂
q: people only feel troubled when they can't find their own 😆
bai lu: then block them 😂 if you are truly good friends, you'd be happy for them 🥹 pic.twitter.com/dWYqb1AxJK
q: what do i do if i'm a people pleaser? i still feel wronged at the end of the day#BaiLu: i'm actually a bit of a people pleaser. if something i say makes a friend unhappy, i'm always the one who proactively fixes it. if it only takes a few extra words or actions and i won't… pic.twitter.com/hgbBwPT2uS
— tiff⚡️ (@tiff_ilosophy) April 13, 2023
